I would like to know the best kind of hair gels that I can use because my hair gets poofy and I want to style it wavey. I use the Aussie gel and it works ok, but its not amazing. Also, I don't want it to get my hair hard and solid looking too after the gel dries it tends to do that. I just want to make my hair look naturally wavey and soft and not frizzy, because it is really long and stright. Thanks!